‘A brief definition would be that personality is made up of the characteristic patterns of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that make a person unique.’
In elevating our personality, we can consciously break one ‘lower pattern’ after another and re[lace it with a higher one.
Or we can change the way we think.
Our thinking is conditioned by our nature and our environment. So very often, a change of scene will help. In fact sannyAsIs (parivrAjakAs) of the yore were keen on never staying in the same place for two days in a row.
One way of elevating our nature is through the food we eat. Eat sAttvika AhAra.
Another is by listening to the right sounds. vEda mantrAs, s'lOkAs, bird calls and so on.
Also by reading the right kind of stuff. When you read a book or watch a video, see which emotions are being invoked, which passions are being ignited and and which thought patterns are being reinforced. Books and Videos also have cakrAs of their own, and they can raise you or pull you down.
When you interact with people of higher cakrAs try and raise yourself: don't try pulling them down. Similarly when you deal with people of lower cakrAs try elevating them or at least maintain your balance. Try not to go down with them. People of lower cakrAs can be very powerful. It's the way red paint can dominate a pink water color.
Try and interact with fewer people till you have changed to your desired state.
Special places like ancient temples are very helpful, they are usually connected to some water body. Lakes, river sources, water falls, joining of tributaries, estuaries and so on. (There are more negative ions in the air).
Special seasons and times are very helpful. For example autumn, winter, spring etc each bring their own special days and weather. Sometimes the sun is closer and sometimes the moon is and sometimes the skies are clearer. Some seasons make life very happy like the nesting seasons of birds and so on. Some make the waterfalls full. Some make the mountains green and some make them white. Some times the skies are clear and full of bright stars. External beauty and calmness also help you find beauty and peace within.
It helps to be clean and organised.
It helps to have people of your level to talk to and compare notes with.
At the end of the day you are changing what you are paying attention to and thinking about. Your changed thought pattern will change your feelings and behaviour. And lo and behold you have a new elevated personality.
The highest personality that you can have is the divine personality. The highest state of mind is advaitik state of mind.
Aum manah s'ivAya. The mind for auspiciousness.
The manas for s'iva.